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Coffee

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You know that feeling?

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That feeling you get when your friend just finishes his cup of coffee while sitting at your

kitchen counter?

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He shifts on his stool in front of you, and?takes a breath?

and you ask,

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?You want some more? Some coffee??

and you wait?

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for another second?

but the time seems to stretch for a minute and then another minute and your head fills up.

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What if he says, ?No.?

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You will then have to take a shower and get ready for the day?

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Find the unwrinkled brown corduroys?they are the only pants that fit because you had too much of your mom?s cheesecake last week; dig out matching socks; find both pads for your bra, search through the closet for the thick brown sweater, and brush your teeth which will remind you to clean the green toothpaste off the faucet handle that your three year old spit on two days ago.

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And, oh yeah, you forgot to plug your phone in?the charge is low?so you have to remember to plug it into the car connection?so you can talk all day?

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to everyone.

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You left the letters on the car seat without stamps?so you have to get the stamps at the post office and there better not be a line because you don?t have time to stand in that long line with all the people picking their nose, rolling their eyes, and shifting their hips waiting and waiting and waiting in front of you.

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But instead?

he says,

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?Yes. Yes, I?d like some more. Fill it to the top.?

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You breathe again. Take the top off the coffee pot and pour.

Pour until the brown liquid just licks the top of his cup.

?You want some more?

?Cream too???

right??

Sweden in My Life

Grandmothers are like Sweden.

Sweden is a country that rocks?fashionable, solid, and full of people with names like Anja, Sofia, and Hanna who can do any winter sport with a smile.

The grandmothers in my world are like that.

One grandmother is my Swedish government-run child care system. (Did you know Sweden?s entire population has access to childcare so parents can work?)

When I?m working?who comes in to pick up during the vast time gap?Granny. She cheerfully tucks my little one safely into her car and takes her on adventures. Well?to her snow covered backyard where my little ?e? can run and practice those winter sports with a smile.

The other grandmother is my Swedish National Institute of Public Health (Their policies, by the way, include the statement that health is a key factor for sustainable societal development.)

Whenever ?e? has a cold?Oma has a wealth of knowledge to pass on regarding concoctions to assuage ills?honey and tea, salt and hot water, cold compresses for a fever, etc. And, then there is always the back-up call the next morning or in the evening.

My grandmothers climb trees, make snow angels, buy extra winter coats and hats with hearts, paint ceramic creatures with bright silver sparkles, find just the right fuzzy slippers for tiny toes, play with scarves and puppets, and know just how much to tug on soft hair matted and snarled from a nap filled with dreams of dragons and dinosaurs.

As a single mom, I don?t know what I?d do without Sweden in my life.